Essays


The NaNoWriMo Novel That Wasn’t…and Then Was

Women Writers, Women’s Books | 2024

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Injury Information

Dorothy Parker’s Ashes | 2024

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In It Together

Women Writers, Women’s Books | 2024

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My Poetry Background Helped Save My Memoir…

Brevity’s Nonfiction Blog | 2024

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What Consulting a Psychic Did for My Memoir…and for Me

Cleaver Magazine | 2024

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Annotated Playlist for Everywhere I Look

Largehearted Boy | 2024

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Researching and writing this book was a painful project, though not entirely. After all, it meant spending many hours in the company of my sister. The person I remember loving before I had language for the feeling. The one I spoke my first words to. The girl who taught me the magic of make-believe and the transporting power of music. For nineteen years, I got to be her sister. Here, in her memory, are nineteen songs.

—Introduction to the Annotated Playlist for Everywhere I Look

Where’s My Sister?

(excerpt from Everywhere I Look)

Salt Water | 2024

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I See You

Dorothy Parker’s Ashes | 2022

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From Drawer to Bookstore in Just Twenty-Four Years

Cleaver Magazine | 2023

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When You Tawk like a New Yawka

with audio
Dorothy Parker’s Ashes |2022

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Living Large

Women Writers, Women’s Books | 2021

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My Father’s Dream Deferred

Hevria Magazine | 2020

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Let’s Say

Brevity | 2020

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Am I the Burning House?

Wordgathering | Volume 14, Issue 2, 2020

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Writing As an Act of Resistance

Women Writers, Women’s Books | 2020

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“I have to take those flashes of insight that in poetry are the crux, the thing itself, and explore them more overtly. This requires being a kind of split self. Flawed protagonist, willing to show herself bumbling in the dark, and someone possibly no more than moments older, yet somehow wiser, attempting to make sense of it all.”

Excerpt from “Living Large”

Persuasion

Hippocampus Magazine | 2020

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Here. Look.

River Teeth | 2019

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In the House of Alternative Facts

Salon | 2019

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My Secret Superpower

Parents | 2019

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She’s Not There

Lunch Ticket | 2019

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Troll Pox

Brevity’s Nonfiction Blog | 2018

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Finding Myself on the Page

The New York Times | 2017

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On No Longer Hiding and Pretending

The Observer/Guardian | 2017

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Love, Eventually

The New York Times | 2017

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Deluge

JMWW Journal | 2018

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Streaming

Toasted Cheese Literary Journal | 2018

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It’s Time

The Rumpus | 2015

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Seeking Pauline

Full Grown People | 2016

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Should I Feel Anything Yet?

Thread | 2015

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“Catch,” he called now from atop the tree and tossed down what looked like miniature peaches. I lifted my Indian print skirt to form a net as two thoughts vied for my attention. Maybe he could love me. I need to write about this.

Excerpt from “Finding Myself on the Page

How I Became a Heartbreaker

More Magazine | 2009

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The Body Divided

The Utne Reader | 2009

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It Takes a Village

New York Family Magazine

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Our Night

New York Family Magazine

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A Conscious Decision

KYSO Flash | 2015

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Throwing Caution Out the Car Window

Ducts | Issue 24, 2010

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